ok .. here is the last post =)
thirdly .. set the right goals for happiness ...
as previously mentioned, many ppl pursue goals tt they expect will make them happy, but happiness isn't always the end result ...
ppl who hv put in everything - at the expense of their personal lives .. only to wonder why they're successful and still unhappy ...
so ... how is one to knw which goals will garner personal happiness and which won't ...
as u set ur goals, rmb all of the areas in life tt are important to u ...
and lastly .. work toward ur goals the smart way ...
here are the following ways ...
First, set small, attainable goals. Work your way into a new habit with baby steps, and you’ll feel more successful every step of the way, and be less likely to give up.
Next, reward your progress; for each small goal you reach, allow yourself to feel pride, and perhaps give yourself a small reward.
Don’t forget to enlist social support! Tell the supportive people in your life what you’re attempting to acheive, and tell them of your successes. This will give you added strength, and will make it less appealing to give up (and have to explain yourself to those close to you)!
It's not the end .. it's juz a part of the whole process yea ... =)
when everything is said and done ... @ 12:16 AM
